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<\/p>\nTessa C\u00e1rdenas here serving as one of your guest bloggers for today. And my topic? Sex. But not just the sex by two people that you might be used to. No, I\u2019m here to discuss how I\u2019ve learned to deal with sex scenes with three or more men.<\/p>\n
Now, I never planned to have to deal with this at all. After all, it\u2019s enough of a struggle to write sex between two people. Why on earth would I want to add more? But my characters wanted to add more. They weren\u2019t satisfied with just one boyfriend and suddenly I had to find out how three or more people could have sex.<\/p>\n
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Sex with three people isn\u2019t just an issue of writing more names and less pronouns. No, it\u2019s also a matter of positions, space, and of course, making sure everyone gets off in the end.<\/p>\n
Now I\u2019ll be honest. One of the first things I did to research my novel was watch a plethora of porn. Porn with three guys. Porn with four guys. Even porn with five guys. And I watched it all with a careful eye\u2014research purposes only of course. I watched to see where the actors seemed to struggle and tried to figure out how much non-professionals could do.
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\nOf course, we all know that what works in porn doesn\u2019t all work in real life. So while it\u2019s a fantastic visual, it\u2019s not the end of the line in research. After failing to find informative articles online, I turned to my friends. Not everyone is lucky enough to have four friends who\u2019ve ventured to have threesomes and foursomes, so I\u2019ll share all of the knowledge I gathered.<\/p>\n
It shouldn\u2019t be a shock to find out that sex with multiple partners isn\u2019t just about lining up on a bed and going at it. For one thing, you need at least a queen-size bed for three 6 foot men to sleep comfortably. If you want them to do more than sleep, it really does help to have a king available. After that, you have to get creative if you want everyone to get off.<\/p>\n
I previously said that it\u2019s not just about lining up. While that might be an option, three-way doggie style might not fit so well on the bed, and two people thrusting at once can get awkward when the thrusts aren\u2019t timed well and cocks start slipping out. If you really want everyone to get off, it\u2019s often better to mix it up. Let guy A get off with a blowjob while he\u2019s being fucked by guy B and then let both of them suck off guy C together. Handjobs, blowjobs, and fucking in any combination can work.<\/p>\n
I have to say I\u2019ve never thought so much about the sex aspect of a story before this. Usually, I just let it all play out as it goes along, but for threesome or foursome sex scenes I find myself blocking out each sex scene before I can even start!<\/p>\n
But even with the extra research, (which I can\u2019t say I mind all the time) I\u2019ve enjoyed my explorations into writing and reading polyamorous sex. Now I\u2019d love to see what y\u2019all think about it.<\/p>\n
Have you read polyamorous sex before? Do like reading stories with it? Does the sex appeal to you more or the relationship?<\/em><\/p>\n Comment on this post for a chance to win an ebook version of The Strongest Shape<\/a>. The book will be released November 6th with all the threesome sex you could want in one novel!<\/strong><\/p>\n <\/strong>Contact Tessa on Livejournal<\/a> or Twitter<\/a><\/strong>. Tessa C\u00e1rdenas here serving as one of your guest bloggers for today. And my topic? Sex. But not just the sex by two people that you might be used to. No, I\u2019m here to discuss how I\u2019ve learned to deal with sex scenes with three or more men. Now, I never planned to have to […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[25,52],"tags":[103,912,918,141,139,142,140],"class_list":["post-861","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-contest","category-event","tag-cocktoberfest","tag-contest","tag-guest-posting","tag-moresomes","tag-multiple-partners","tag-tessa-cardenas","tag-threesomes"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pzLgx-dT","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/861","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=861"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/861\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=861"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=861"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=861"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.extraordinarymachine.net\/journalstuff\/ot3blog.jpg\")
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