{"id":3141,"date":"2013-10-28T06:58:17","date_gmt":"2013-10-28T13:58:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/?p=3141"},"modified":"2013-10-28T08:25:52","modified_gmt":"2013-10-28T15:25:52","slug":"grl2013-meeting-rjscott_author","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/grl2013-meeting-rjscott_author\/","title":{"rendered":"My #GRL2013 Story of the Day: Meeting @RJScott_author"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/FeaturedAuthor200x300.png\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-3114\" alt=\"FeaturedAuthor200x300\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/FeaturedAuthor200x300.png?resize=200%2C300\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/FeaturedAuthor200x300.png?w=200 200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/FeaturedAuthor200x300.png?resize=100%2C150 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a>There\u2019s just too much to process about GRL this year, so I decided the best way to share some of my favorite moments would be to share a story every day for a week or so of the most amazing moments\u2014or at least my recollection of them. Hope you enjoy them. Please share one of your own favorite moments in a comment, because it\u2019s the little interactions that make the experience so memorable.<\/p>\n<p>I think it was Wednesday morning, but at this point all concept of time has disappeared. It doesn\u2019t really matter when it happened, though.<\/p>\n<p>I was in the hotel lobby searching for coffee\u2014much harder than it sounds for anyone from the west coast\u2014and I happened to sit at a table with an empty spot. I noticed the woman in the next seat was RJ Scott from her nametag. [The first day or two we are all staring at nametags of anyone we don\u2019t recognize or remember their name.].<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou\u2019re RJ? I\u2019ve been hoping to meet you,\u201d I said. We\u2019d emailed or FB\u2019d about her coming this year.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEm?\u201d She had a big grin as she stared at my badge.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes. Hi!\u201d<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_3142\" style=\"width: 235px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/RJ-Scott\/e\/B00480VVB0\/?_encoding=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;tag=mandmlove-20\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3142\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-3142\" alt=\"I didn't have my own photo of RJ so I nicked this one off her blog.\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/rjscott-fromblog.jpg?resize=225%2C300\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/rjscott-fromblog.jpg?resize=225%2C300 225w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/rjscott-fromblog.jpg?resize=112%2C150 112w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/rjscott-fromblog.jpg?resize=159%2C212 159w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/rjscott-fromblog.jpg?w=301 301w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-3142\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">I didn&#8217;t have my own photo of RJ so I nicked this one off her blog.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>She got up and gave me a huge hug, which I wasn\u2019t expecting from a Brit.\u00a0 \u201cThank you!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I was a little confused here until RJ told me that several years ago she had emailed me about sending a story for an anthology and that I was the first person she met in m\/m romance who encouraged her to write and try to get published. I was completely surprised that my email or comment had such a wonderful effect. I\u2019m just so glad she did ask a question back then and that my response made a difference in her life.<\/p>\n<p>Before I ever sent anything to a publisher I also emailed authors and asked for help or advice. I received nothing but encouragement and answers to questions. One of the people who first gave me help was JM Snyder. I will never forget that. I am so glad I was able to pay it forward to another author who has since come to be so popular and entertain so many readers\u2014including me.<\/p>\n<p>That surprise aside, I had a great time with RJ and her lovely husband, Steve, who also hugs people! \u00a0They might not have been allowed back into the UK. I spent several entertaining hours with them, saw photos of their kids, chatted, drank tea and coffee and hung out with Amber Kell and Stephanie Hecht, two of RJ\u2019s co-authors. I only wish there had been more time to spend with RJ later in the con, but once the events started, it was crazy and everyone gets pulled in different directions.<\/p>\n<p>I also have RJ to thank for telling me about the dinosaur porn (which I could have lived without). I hope I can make it to a UK meet next year or the year after. I hear rumors one might be in Scotland, and I\u2019d love to get back there.<\/p>\n<p>Does anyone else have a story about meeting RJ? Please share in the comments. If you have any photos, I\u2019d love to see those too.<\/p>\n<p>Stay tuned for another story from GRL2013!<\/p>\n<h1><div class='et-box et-bio'>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class='et-box-content'>Enjoy a <a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/em-free-bl\">free read<\/a> or check out some <a title=\"#GRL2013 Photo Highlights\" href=\"http:\/\/www.emlynley.com\/blog\/2013\/10\/grl2013-photo-highlights\/\">GRL2013 photos<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/h1>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There\u2019s just too much to process about GRL this year, so I decided the best way to share some of my favorite moments would be to share a story every day for a week or so of the most amazing moments\u2014or at least my recollection of them. Hope you enjoy them. 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